Possession of something: happiness, health, beauty, love, money, cars, apartments, yachts, houses, travels, social status — is measured only by your willingness to own it. Willingness is measured only by the ability to be calm and feel good about what you want to possess. You don’t fall into euphoria and don’t shout from the rooftops that you have a toothbrush, right? If you want to increase your wealth, you should just feel good about you have it. Without pride and bragging. Calmly. And most people can’t pass this stage. It’s like a fire that burns you from the inside out.
When you experience a storm of emotions from what has come to you — it means that you’re not ready yet to have it. Expand the volume of your acceptance and readiness to possess more than you already have now, and stay calm when it will start to come.
To get what you don’t have, you need to be a so-called «selfish» and develop yourself without a desire to develop others. When you start with yourself, take care of yourself, love yourself, make yourself richer and happier — only then you will be able to qualitatively do all these things for other people. But only for those who are ready.